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Christmas Windows
Without a doubt, this was my most favorite time of the year and now....
I guess I tend to approach each Christmas with the same ambivalence that I have for my own birthday. There is a hope that is mixed with disappointment; there is fear and anger, there is depression. (I'm not sure that I am not confusing Christmas with New Year's.)
Christmas is a benchmark, a milestone and a goal. “I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus,” “All I Want for Christmas is My Two Front Teeth,” “I'll Be Home for Christmas”: the notion of comparison and contrast is built right in. “Look what Santa brung me!” “You have to put up the lights, everyone else has theirs up already.”
Friday, July 1, 2011
Tool No. 10: Get Professional Help If You Need It
It's a difficult tool to use because asking for help requires a measure of self-awareness. You have to be able to identify that you are in a hole before you can ask for a way out. Once the situational aspect is addressed, i.e., where you are, the next question is transformational, i.e., how does one change and who can help.
There are a whole series of jokes about people in crisis asking a variety of specialists how they can resolve their circumstances. If they ask an economist, the solution invariably involves economic theory, a surgeon advocates for an intrusive operation, a politician promotes legislation as their answer. Everyone has a unique opinion and it is frequently a challenge to figure out how to make the best choice--kind of like picking a calling plan for your cellphone.
For some, the journey to self-awareness comes easily and they can move seamlessly into action, but these are less likely to be the people for whom help is required. I remember watching a performance of Penn & Teller where Penn--the talking giant--was juggling broken bottles. He says as part of the bit that he gets asked about whether he is concerned that he might catch the flying bottles by the wrong ends. He says something like that is unlikely, but if it were to happen, if he did catch one of the bottles by the jagged end, he would almost immediately let go of it.
For the rest of us, those less like Penn and more like lobsters in a pot, the recognition that our circumstances have become a problem comes on much more gradually. Instead of responding instinctively, we take the time to map the pot and appreciate the blending as our shells move from green to red. We don't know we need help until we catch a whiff of melted butter and by then the response options are far fewer.
I am forced to admit that much of my early thinking about mental health comes from comedy psychiatrist like Bob Newhart
The only other thing I knew about psychiatry was that they had sample packs of medications that looked like packages of Dentyne gum. I only knew this because my father had a sock drawer full of them. One year he took me to England and talked about how hard it was for him to drive on the "wrong side of the road". The pills helped him with that, he said. I don't think he ever had a professional relationship with a psychiatrist, but it seemed like he always had samples. Later, when my mother went back to school, got degrees in applied social science and became a trained counselor, my father would dismiss her chosen field as the "helping professions."
Once you get to the point where you begin to think about professional help then there comes with that the unasked question about what it says about you if you think you need professional help.
Although I didn't fully understand it at the time, I think this was how I learned about the stigma associated with mental illness. I learned that it was something to be made fun of, mental health was the obsession of celebrities and none of it was to be taken seriously. I don't think anyone ever said that if I was sad I should just get over it, but I also know that when I was sad, I was most often left alone to deal with it. (At least that's what I recall.)
Identifying the need for help and getting past whatever internalized stigmas you might carry are important steps, but they only serve to bring you to the next question and that is identifying what kind of help you need to address your situation.
There are many paths toward recovery and the "right" path is going to be different for each person. A quick trip through your local bookstore's self-help section will demonstrate that there as many therapies as there is shelf space to hold them. Recovery could also lead you to connect with a community of faith. Your path to recovery may seem, at first, more like a maze with many false starts and dead ends, but the drive to get out of the hole, or out of the pot, should sustain you through this period.
Kind of like Dorothy in the "Wizard of Oz
Another thing that Dorothy had going for her was the support of trusted friends--see Connect with Others. At every step of her journey they helped her to make the best possible decisions.
For some, medications can play a role in their recovery. There are many success stories about the use of neuropharmacology, but there are also questions as to the risk vs. benefit of this approach. It is a subject to discuss carefully with your psychiatrist. As with most medications there is the risk of adverse side-effects and you should learn as much about those as possible.
Whether you are dealing with a social worker, a psychologist, a psychiatrist, or other mental health professional, it is important to have trust in that relationship. If you don't have confidence in the help you are getting then it is often possible to change providers.
Mental Health America of Licking County dies not provide direct treatment services, but we can make referrals to area providers.
I need to go home and walk my dog, so I am going to leave you with this short clip from "The West Wing" in which the late, great John Spencer tells a story about a man who found himself in a hole and needed help.
-- Graham Campbell
Associate Director
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Monday, June 1, 2009
“June is…”
Effective Communication Month…Give someone a compliment and mean it! Start an interesting discussion with someone. Tell someone how you feel.
Great Outdoors Month…You don’t have to spend money to have a great time this summer. Stop by a local park and play on the swing set; go camping; take a hike; have a picnic in your backyard; get creative!
Turkey Lovers Month…Try a new recipe that contains turkey. Or hug a turkey, if you know where to find one.
Perennial Gardening Month…Be kind to the environment and plant a perennial. Perennials are plants that grow back every year. You can look online for information on plants that would be suitable for your garden.
National Bathroom Reading Month…Enough said!
National Smile Month…So smile! Sometimes we go through our day thinking about all the tasks we must get done and how stressed we are. The simple act of smiling helps relieve our stress, and the stress of those people around us. Make sure you brush your teeth to keep those pearly whites sparkling!
Rebuild Your Life Month…Contact us here at Mental Health America if you are struggling. We have a variety of programs and resources available to you. Also, dialing 2-1-1 in Licking or Knox County will link you with caring, trained professionals who can help point you in the right direction for whatever resource you need.
Sports America Kids Month…Attend a Little League Baseball game and watch those kids run after pop flies in left field and scurry around the bases! Get your child involved in sports or play outdoor games with them to keep them (and you) healthy and physically fit!
By participating in different monthly celebrations, we can be mindful of things we wouldn’t normally think about. All of the celebrations listed above can improve your mental and physical health in some way!
We hope you have a very happy JUNE!
--Brittany Schumann
Suicide Prevention Coordinator
Wednesday, February 4, 2009
Leave the Decisions to the Rodents...?

Surprise, surprise, we have six more weeks of winter. Who had the idea of leaving the determination of the coldest season of the year up to a rodent? Especially one named Phil! This winter, we have had to dig ourselves out of the mounds of snow the clouds have dropped on us, much like a groundhog digs out of his burrow, and the abundance of post-holiday snow has not improved my mood.
My saving grace has been my camera and my new puppy. Rufus is an energetic mixed dog we got from a rescue group. Helping an animal in need did help brighten my mood. It made me feel so much better as I looked out at the dreary grey days outside to have a squirming puppy licking me and cuddling me as close as he could get. Helping those around you who are in need can help lighten your mood when you are feeling down, whether they are of the two-legged or four-legged variety.
In the winter, my house can get pretty dark. Our house is nestled at the bottom of a valley, which shortens the length of daylight I get even more than winter does. So I have to take my dogs outside to take pictures of them since the indoor lighting is poor. Getting outside requires layers upon layers of clothing, but as soon as I am outside taking photographs of my dogs running and jumping and playing in the snow, I find myself laughing. And by the time our play session is over and we come inside, I am ready for a nap.
Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a form of depression; it is also called the winter blues or winter depression. SAD occurs when a person suffers from depressive symptoms during the months of winter. Seasonal Affective Disorder is thought to be caused by a person’s reduced exposure to sunlight due to the shortened (and cold) days of winter. Cloud cover can increase the symptoms by reducing exposure to sunlight even more. Symptoms of SAD include eating too much or too little, sleeping too much or too little, feeling hopeless or helpless, and a decrease in energy level. There are treatment options available for SAD, which includes light therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and medications. For light therapy, a person is exposed to a bright light, usually coming from a device called a light box. If you would like more information on Seasonal Affective Disorder, please do not hesitate to call (740-522-1341) or email (prevention@mhalc.org) us here at MHALC. We would be happy to hear from you and help you!
The good news is that the bulk of winter is behind us and spring is on its way. At least I hope so. It’s Ohio, so it very well may snow in June. Who knows?
--Brittany Schumann
Suicide Prevention Coordinator
Thursday, January 1, 2009
January is National Stalking Awareness Month

By Ashley Shaw, PAVE Coordinator, Mental Health America of Licking County
As a violence prevention educator, people often tell me stories about their experiences with violence and many of the stories involve the serious crime of stalking.
According to the Stalking Resource Center, stalking is defined as a course of action directed at a specific individual that would cause a reasonable person to feel fear.
Television and movies promote commonly held beliefs about stalking which are inaccurate. For instance, many think that only strangers, often with a mental illness, are the ones who commit this serious crime, when almost the exact opposite is true. According to statistics from the Stalking Resource Center:
- 77% of female victims and 64% of male victims know their stalker.
- 59% of female victims and 30% of male victims are stalked by an intimate partner.
- Intimate partner stalkers frequently approach their targets, and their behaviors escalate quickly.
Through the impact stalking can have on a victim’s daily life, it is very clear to see why more people need to be made aware of them.
A victim of stalking is very likely to experience serious changes to his or her daily life.
- 26% of stalking victims lost time from work as a result of their victimization, and 7% never returned to work.
- 30% of female victims and 20% of male victims sought psychological counseling.
- The prevalence of anxiety, insomnia, social dysfunction, and severe depression is much higher among stalking victims than the general population.
Because of the prevalence, stalking is something that each of us needs to take seriously. The number of stalking victims in the United States is astounding: 1,006,970 women and 370,990 men are stalked annually. The good news is that there is help available to victims of such a serious crime.
A first line of defense when dealing with stalking is educating yourself about the topic and the legal aspects that can be involved. I urge all readers to familiarize themselves with the topic of stalking so that it can be recognized and prevented as much as possible. The state of Ohio has laws in place to protect victims and prosecute stalkers. Depending on the seriousness of the crime, charges can range from a first degree misdemeanor to a fourth degree felony. Jail or prison time varies as well depending on the specifics of any given case. If you or someone you know is being stalked, call 9-1-1 immediately to get law enforcement involved.
Through education and awareness, communities can support victims and combat the crime. There are plenty of resources available at Mental Health America of Licking County or on websites such as the Stalking Resource Network Website (www.ncvc.org/src).
The P.A.V.E program (Prevent Assault and Violence Education) is participating in a community awareness campaign by hanging up informational posters in area Licking County schools. We hope that through the poster campaign we can build a knowledgeable community that offers support to stalking victims and increases the prevention of potential victims.
For more information please contact Ashley Shaw at (740) 522-2277 or ashaw@mhalc.org.
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Grieving

The death of someone close to us is one of life’s most stressful events. It takes time to heal and each of us responds differently. Grieving is not orderly and you may need help to cope, but in the end, coping effectively is vital to your mental health.
Mourning and the complex stages of the grieving process are necessary and it takes time. The period of grieving varies greatly from person to person. Grieving is not a weakness; it is a necessity. Refusing to grieve is not courageous and may cause you a great deal of harm later on both emotionally and physically.
The grief process has many stages, but most people do not usually flow from the first stage to the last in a logical order. Some people will jump back and forth between stages and the length of time it takes to go through the stages will vary.
- shock and denial – feeling emotionally numb
- anger – it’s unfair, you may be mad at yourself (for not being kinder) or mad at the deceased (for leaving you etc.)
- guilt – blaming yourself or feeling like you are losing emotional control
- feeling dragged down – the blues or the blahs or even experiencing the signs and symptoms of depression
- loneliness – really missing the person (it’s time to reach out to others)
- hope – you will reach a stage where you can focus on your future
First a person is in numbness or shock. It can feel like you are “sleepwalking” through life and it may last several weeks or longer; then there is a time of disorganization when feelings begin to come alive again, but it may be hard to focus and make sense of life; and eventually, the re-organization happens. A great hurt is never completely forgotten; rather it takes its place among life’s other, more immediate demands.
Living with loss means that you are taking care of your emotional needs. Some suggestions on coping: Be with caring people; express your feelings; take enough time; accept a changed life; take care of your physical health; support others in their grief; come to terms with your loss; make a new beginning; Postpone major life changes (if you just can’t think clearly); Reach out for help – call Mental Health America of Licking County at 740-522-1341 or email me: paddykutz@alink.com for referrals.
Helping Children Grieve: Children who experience a major loss may grieve differently than adults. A child’s sense of security or survival may be affected. Often, they are confused about the changes they see taking place around them, particularly if well-meaning adults try to protect them from the truth.
Limited understanding and an inability to express feelings put very young children at a special disadvantage. Young children may revert to earlier behaviors (such as bed-wetting), ask questions about the deceased that seem insensitive, invent games about dying or pretend that the death never happened.
Coping with a child’s grief puts added strain on a bereaved parent. However, angry outbursts or criticism only deepen a child’s anxiety and delays recovery. Instead, talk honestly with children in terms they can understand. Take extra time to talk with them about death and the person who has died. Explain to them what happens next such as burial and memorial services, and take time to answer questions. Help them work through their feelings and remember that they are looking to adults for suitable behavior.
Helping others Grieve: To help someone who has lost a loved one, you can help them through the grieving process.
- Share the sorrow – allow them, even encourage them – to talk about their feelings of loss and share memories of the deceased.
- Don’t offer false comfort – it doesn’t help the grieving person when you say “it was for the best” or “you’ll get over it in time” or “they are in a better place now.” Instead, offer a simple expression of sorrow and take time to listen.
- Offer practical help – baby-sitting, cooking and running errands are ways to help someone who is in the midst of grieving.
- Be patient – remember that it can take a long time to recover from a loss. Make yourself available to talk.
- Encourage professional help when necessary. Don’t hesitate to recommend professional help when you feel someone is experiencing too much pain to cope alone.
Profound emotional reactions may occur. These reactions may include anxiety attacks, chronic fatigue, and/or depression. The death of a loved one is always difficult. Mourning is the natural process you go through to accept a major loss. Remember, it takes time to fully absorb the impact of a loss. You never stop missing your loved one, but the pain eases after time and allows you to go on with your life.
--Paddy Kutz
Executive Director
Mental Health America of Licking County
Friday, December 5, 2008
Families Are Like Opinions
For just about as long as I can remember, the holidays have made me a nervous wreck.
We had the tree and the stockings, the presents and the toys, but the centerpiece of every Christmas was the dinner. Because we lived in a small house, our family always went either to the home of my aunt’s family or to that of my uncle. So instead of the anticipatory preparation of turkey and fixings, there was the dread associated with getting into scratchy clothes and snow boots for the drive to dinner.
My parents were of the cocktail generation and so once the coats were hung up and the “what did you get for Christmas-es” were dispensed with, the kids were dispatched to the television room not to return until dinner was served. My father was fond of saying that “children should be seen and not heard” and so we quickly learned our roles at these gatherings.
All of the cousins were just enough older than either my brother or me that we never had all that much in common to talk about. At these gatherings we would still be sitting at the kids table while they were able to sit with the adults.
Among my clearest memories about these gatherings was the laughter. The meal would begin with an old English tradition of opening Christmas crackers. These are tube-shaped paper novelties that contain a paper cap, a small toy such as used to be included in Cracker Jack boxes, a paper hat, and a piece of paper with a merry joke or riddle. (“Q: How do you stop a charging rhino? A: Take away his credit card.”)
Once the multi-colored paper hats were in place, the adults table would take turns reading their joke over the sharp-tongued critiques of the others. A small laugh initiated by the old joke would become a belly laugh when “topped” with some sarcastic remark about the joke teller, or some reference to an incident from the past that cast them in a bad or embarrassing light.
The challenge for anyone wishing to join in the conversation was that they had to be loud enough to seize any gap in the conversation and they had to be funny. And once you had everyone’s attention, there was no room for any kind of uncertainty. You either had something to say, or you didn’t and if you fumbled then that only provided more grist for the comedy mill.
It was kind of like the celebrity roasts that show up on television from time to time. There was not as much bleeping, but the tone was the same. It was not an environment for the faint of heart. Bringing an outsider to the table was a real test of the strength of your relationship. If they came back, it was a sign of the promise of the relationship and if they participated in the comedic free-fire zone and were funny then that was a whole different ballgame.
From my vantage point at the kids table, my cousins all seemed really smart. They could give just as well, or better, than they got, they were laser-accurate in their observations and they all seemed to enjoy the game. They made it seem effortless and like something you would want to be a part of.
By the time I was old enough to sit at the adults table, many of my cousins were no longer coming home for the holidays and I discovered that I had neither the confidence nor the ability to participate in the conversation.
There’s another old riddle that goes, “What’s the secret of comed--? Timing!”
If I have any skill telling a joke—a question frequently debated—it was hard-earned. Even reading the lame Christmas cracker riddles, it was far too easy to misplace the emphasis and lose the joke. And when I did, my loving family was right there to point it out. (Perhaps I should have read more into the fact that those paper hats never fit me....)
As children, we only ever know what we know and so we don’t often have the luxury of seeing our situation for what it is. Often it takes an outsider to tell you that you are having a hard time, or that your environment is toxic. The work I do now is based on this idea.
Still, family is complicated. It’s not destiny—we’re not all doomed to be just like our parents, cousins, etc.—but it is complicated. It’s years later and I don’t go home as much as I used to. I’m not as close to my family as I would like to think but if I don’t go home, I don’t have any relationship with them at all.
Families are like opinions: everybody’s got one and everyone thinks their’s is the most screwed up. There’s no question that some are better than others, but there’s help available to work on those relationships, or how you respond to them. Mental Health America exists to connect people with resources to improve their mental health, including their family ties. If we can help you, please give us a call.
Please accept my best wishes for a safe and healthy holiday season.
--Graham Campbell
Associate Director
Monday, October 27, 2008
My Odyssey in Mental Illness
I wanted to work because I didn’t want to be on social security for the rest of my life and not have anything to show for it, like a home, a car and other pleasures. To strengthen my self mentally, morally and mostly spiritually, I wanted to build my faith on the wisdom of the Bible and other literature.
Then I joined Schizophrenia Anonymous and realized that I had accomplished those goals. About five years ago I received the Mental Health America Consumers of the Year award from my mentors in the Agency; and now I’m setting new goals in work, school, and faith-based endeavors to help others overcome their afflictions.
--Sam Irvin
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Cobbler's Children
- Start a success team for 4-6 people to meet with me weekly. We will brainstorm with each other about problems and solutions and share goals and successes
- Start an acoustic jam session once a month to get more music back in my life
I invite you to ask me about those goals if we talk. I don't know if it's mentally healthy or not, but for me, fear of mortification is a powerful incentive for following through and a disincentive against procrastination.
Happy trails,
Judith Allee
Parent Support Coordinator
Monday, October 20, 2008
Three Noses

Nearly every time I tell someone that I am the Suicide Prevention Coordinator at Mental Health America of Licking County, I am given either strange or sympathetic looks. (Thankfully, I do get the occasional look of admiration, along with the comment that I am doing very tough work.) At first, I understood why people I knew gave me the looks of sympathy or fear. Suicide is one of the last taboos in America. We can freely talk about sex, pedophilia, homosexuality, HIV/AIDS, and abortion. But mention suicide, and people take several steps back, like you’ve just grown a second nose.
This is why I have a job. Since people don’t talk to their friends, parents, children, and so on about suicide, not many people know the truth about it. Unfortunately, this also means that the rate of suicide in America is still alarmingly high. Most of the completed suicides stem from mental illness, most often depression. Depression is a treatable brain disorder (another word for mental illness). Logically, this means that suicide is preventable if depression is caught early enough. Having just attended Gatekeeper training with the Ohio Suicide Prevention Foundation, I would like to impart some of my knowledge about how to prevent suicide to you.
When we encounter stressful or threatening situations in our lives, our brain (three pounds of protoplasm housed in our skulls) helps protect us. With the way the economy and politics are going, more Americans will be facing stressful and threatening situations in their lives. Our brain, or more specifically, our amygdala, releases three different hormones that are related to fight-or-flight. We become equipped to either stand up for ourselves (fight) or escape the danger (flight).
- Testosterone is what gives us strength in our muscles to either fight or run away.
- Epinephrine (also known as adrenaline) moves blood flow from body functions that are not necessary for the fight-or-flight response, like digestion, to our muscles and brain.
- Cortisol soothes the body after fight or flight has taken place. (Ever used hydroCORTISONE cream to make swelling go away?)
There is only one problem. These days, none of us are chased by saber-toothed tigers or giant wooly mammoths; instead, we sit at our desks or on our couches, and when stressful or threatening situations occur, we don’t use up the testosterone, epinephrine or cortisol that are released into our system. As beneficial as these hormones are to our body, too much of them in our system destroy little things in our brains called neurons. Most often, the neurons in the part of our brain that stores short-term memory, mood and emotions, the hippocampus, are affected. The breaking down of the neurons that determine our emotions and moods causes people to become depressed.
Like I mentioned earlier, 90% of people who die by suicide suffer from some form of brain disorder (mental illness), mostly depression. Depression, like other mental illnesses (thanks, Kristen!), is highly treatable with medications and therapy. If we begin to screen everyone for depression, we can catch it, treat it, and prevent suicides.
I do hope that one day, I work myself out of a job, but there is much work to be done until then.
Oh yeah, and exercise as much as you can, and you can help save your neurons from destruction!
--Brittany Schumann
Suicide Prevention Coordinator
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
I Am Very Excited

